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Emotional Regulation

Emotional Regulation Therapy in Niagara Region and Virtually Province Wide: Gaining Control Over Emotions & Reactions

Emotions are a natural part of life, but when they feel overwhelming, unpredictable, or difficult to manage, they can impact relationships, self-esteem, and overall well-being. Struggles with emotional regulation can stem from past experiences, neurodiversity, trauma, or learned coping patterns, making it difficult to express emotions in a healthy way.

 

At Wellness Counselling Centre, we help individuals of all ages develop practical tools to understand, regulate, and express emotions in a way that promotes balance, self-awareness, and confidence.

Understanding Emotional Regulation Challenges

Difficulties with emotional regulation can show up in different ways, including:

  • Strong emotional outbursts – Reacting intensely to situations, feeling out of control

  • Emotional shutdown or numbness – Avoiding emotions or struggling to express them

  • Overwhelm & heightened stress response – Feeling constantly on edge, anxious, or unable to calm down

  • Difficulty managing frustration, sadness, or anger – Struggling to self-soothe or regain emotional balance

  • Impact on relationships & daily life – Feeling disconnected, misunderstood, or overly reactive in interactions

Emotional regulation is a skill that can be learned and strengthened. Therapy provides a structured space to understand emotions, build coping strategies, and gain confidence in handling life’s ups and downs.

When to Consider Therapy for Emotional Regulation

Common signs to consider:​​

  • Frequent mood swings, emotional outbursts, or difficulty regulating

  • Struggling to communicate emotions effectively without shutting down or reacting disproportionately

  • Feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or frustrated in social or personal situations

  • Difficulty handling criticism, stress, or unexpected challenges

  • Needing support in helping children or teens develop effective emotional regulation skills

Therapy provides practical strategies to help children, teens, and adults strengthen emotional control, self-awareness, and resilience.

How Therapy for Emotional Regulation Can Help

Therapy offers a structured, supportive approach to identifying emotional triggers, developing coping strategies, and improving self-regulation skills.

1. Recognizing & Understanding Emotions

  • Identifying emotional triggers and underlying patterns

  • Exploring the connection between thoughts, emotions, and behaviours

  • Learning self-awareness and emotional vocabulary

2. Developing Healthy Coping Strategies

  • Practicing mindfulness and grounding techniques to reduce emotional overwhelm

  • Learning self-soothing skills and distress tolerance techniques

  • Building structured tools for managing strong emotions in the moment

3. Strengthening Relationships & Communication

  • Learning to express emotions in a healthy, constructive way

  • Developing empathy and emotional intelligence for better social interactions

  • Strengthening parent-child relationships and teaching emotional regulation to kids & teens

How Therapy May Support You

✔️ Stronger emotional awareness – Understanding what you feel and why
✔️ Healthier emotional responses – Developing tools to handle stress, anger, and frustration
✔️ Greater self-confidence – Feeling in control of emotions instead of reactive
✔️ Improved relationships – Learning how to express emotions clearly and effectively
✔️ Reduced emotional overwhelm – Gaining skills to regulate emotions in daily life

Our Approach to Therapy for Anxiety

At Wellness Counselling Centre, we take a practical, evidence-based approach to helping individuals strengthen their emotional regulation skills. Our therapy includes:

  • Art & Play Therapy – Engaging children and youth in creative, developmentally appropriate strategies for emotional expression and self-regulation

  • Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) – Helping individuals reframe negative thought patterns and develop structured emotion-management skills

  • Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) – Teaching distress tolerance, emotional regulation, and mindfulness strategies

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) – Exploring emotional parts that hold anger, fear, or overwhelm, fostering self-compassion and inner balance

  • Somatic Therapy – Using body-based techniques to help regulate nervous system responses to stress and emotional triggers

Our holistic, client-centered approach ensures that therapy is tailored to the needs of each individual, whether child, teen, or adult.

Build Confidence in Managing Emotions

Emotional regulation is a skill that can be developed and strengthened at any age. If emotions feel overwhelming, unpredictable, or difficult to manage, therapy can help you gain control, feel more balanced, and improve your relationships and well-being.

Our Therapists Who Work With Emotional Regulation

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Stefanie DeJong, M.A.
Registered Psychotherapist
Level 2 Internal Family Systems

stefanie@wellnesscc.ca

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Lewis Lau, MACP
Registered Psychotherapist

(Qualifying)
lewis@wellnesscc.ca

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Ashley Wills, MACP
Registered Psychotherapist
(Qualifying)

ashley@wellnesscc.ca

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Caitlin Watson, MACP
Registered Psychotherapist
(Qualifying)

caitlin@wellnesscc.ca

Cindy Rose, M.A., CCTP
Registered Psychotherapist
Certified Clinical Trauma

cindy@wellnesscc.ca

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Erin Coffell, MACP

Registered Psychotherapist
(Qualifying)

erin@wellnesscc.ca

Helping You Move From
Hurt To Hope.

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